Restoring our sense of self-love, enjoyment of our selves, and self-recognition is what we are doing here. Often people with a big appetite for love have chosen biiiig experiences or focus a lot on the presence or lack of what is outside of them. We are interrupting the pattern of requiring large amounts of external stimulation to feel that kind of aliveness and developing the skill to notice smaller, subtler sensations inside. We are also learning emotional safety. This is powerful for women who have already been risk takers in love and are trying to stabilize the love they have for themselves and the place of personal power they can navigate relationships from.

Your desire and depth of your hunger is so welcome here and we don’t want to kill that. We want to respect the intelligence in your wanting. This program is not about how to attract a partner. It’s about repairing or nurturing your own connection to your erotic vitality first and foremost, unconditionally. The intensity of wanting a relationship or being in scarcity can make for challenging relational dynamics. The purpose of this work is to support you in resourcing yourself around your emergent creative/erotic process so that you can hold your own longing, your own pleasure, and update/upgrade how you relate to dating when you are quite literally full of yourself.

Personal transformation runs a risk of destabilizing relationships if you do not travel together in the changes or updates that occur. And, many women successfully and joyfully expand their own eroticism in containers like this that then beautifully feed into their intimacy with their partner. This offering is not specifically based on being single or partnered. It’s about cultivating your own erotic current. 

If you were attracted to this page and offering but you don’t feel this has happened in your life yet, the scope of my work and this coaching modality does not exclude you. Your journey would maybe look more like waking something up inside and learning how to hold it.

Trying to magnetize a partner is a common strategy that would emerge from having the hunger or desire for sex and love. The spirit of Sol, Sex & Sovereign is about connecting to your own erotic channel and stabilizing inside of how activating it is to have needs, hungers, and desires. This container is also not about being celibate in particular or not being available to connection. Relating to others is an emergent process that can weave into the coaching space as well and are part of Somatic Intimacy Coaching (how you are relating intimately to others).

Many women have simply not been taught how to bask in themselves and deeply enjoy and love themselves. Many women have not been taught how to stay open (not collapsed) in their longing. The closer a woman gets to inhabiting her desire nature, and feeling spacious inside of it, the easier it is for her to attract and magnetize or invite others into her world. Once she does this, she also is responsible for how she relates. This creates a series of maturation initiations for a woman - how to know her desire, how to be stable inside of it, how to engage from it.

Teachings that go straight to magnetization strategy can sometimes commodify life-force as a hook to “get” something. When we drop into a deeper naturalness with ourselves, a different kind of self-organization occurs in ourselves and the way that the world reflects us. This container is in service to connecting more intimately and with greater resource with the erotic current within. Mending our own separation from this current is where we create transformation.

No, while we do dialogue the sessions are structured around exploring sensations inside the body or doing guided somatic practices that help you have embodied learning experiences. Then we reflect on what you saw and learned. You will then notice these illuminations affecting your life naturally because when we see ourselves, our world naturally opens up in reflection.

After a decade+ in practice as an astrologer tracking subtle energy and supporting thousands of clients, students, and audience members, I delved into trauma healing through EFT/tapping with Mos Jef and I received my certification in Somatic Intimacy Coaching from the Sea School of Embodiment (previously called Sexological Intimacy Coaching). I am currently moving through Layla Martin’s VITA coaching certification. My work and practice in the field and devoted self-development brought me to a place where I have a unique offering in the realm of sexual education and somatic work.

No. While we will explore pleasure and ways to connect to pleasure and enjoyment as part of this work, it is often though lovingly meeting what is arising that we clear the path. So sometimes challenging material comes up in somatic practices. Everyone has experienced pain and trauma and very often we are alone there and experience neglect. We are bringing an energy of loving golden sunlight to ourselves which includes our totality. You will be supported in this container to develop more unconditional self-esteem and self-regard.

Ok so, if I love what is bad or wrong about me aren’t I enabling those things to continue?

It is normal to have learned self-punishment as a way to “stay in line” or make the right choices. But we are actually learning how radically loving ourselves allows more nurturing and life-affirming choices to naturally emerge.

The three month container (with 1:1 coaching and access to the solo practice library is $1888, with payment plans available.

Email me sabrina@monarchastrology.com!